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Blog · Dr. Laura Colket
Play isn't the opposite of work; it is the engine of innovation. Here's what biology and neuroscience tell us about play, plus four simple practices for you and your team.
We are taught early on that serious work requires a serious demeanor. We grow up believing that if we aren't grinding through a to-do list, we aren't being productive. But if you want your team to truly innovate, to solve complex problems in an increasingly volatile world, you have to give them permission to be curious, to lean into their creative side, and, quite simply, to play.
Play isn't the opposite of work; it is the engine of innovation.
As human beings, our brains are wired to learn through play. Yet we often treat play as a distraction from work or a "nice-to-have" perk. To understand why this is a mistake, I invite you to look past the office walls and into the animal kingdom.
In his book "Play: How It Shapes the Brain, Opens the Imagination, and Invigorates the Soul," Dr. Stuart Brown, a medical doctor and founder of the National Institute for Play, explores the profound necessity of play. One of the book's most striking insights comes from his conversation with animal play expert Bob Fagan. While observing grizzly bears "play fighting," Fagan noted that these sessions serve as a "'pretend' rehearsal" for the challenges and ambiguities of life.
These bears are learning the boundaries of trust, how to read another's cues, and when to defend themselves, all in a setting where the stakes of life and death are removed. As Fagan put it: "In a world continuously presenting unique challenges and ambiguity, play prepares these bears for an evolving planet."
As leaders, we face a similar reality. The modern workplace is defined by relentless ambiguity. If we insist that every interaction remain strictly "serious," we deny ourselves and our teams the rehearsal space we need to get creative and practice responding to the inevitable challenges life throws our way.

If the evolutionary argument isn't enough, the neuroscience is definitive. Research cited in Dr. Brown's work shows that play is literally a workout for our neural architecture.
Renowned play researcher Jaak Panksepp discovered that active play stimulates brain-derived neurotrophic factor (BDNF), a protein that supports the growth of new neurons. Crucially, this happens in the amygdala, where emotions are processed, and in the dorsolateral prefrontal cortex, the seat of executive decision-making.
When we play, we aren't just having fun; we are physically sculpting our brains to be more receptive, more creative, and better at high-level problem solving. Citing animal play scholar John Byers, Brown notes:
"...the brain is making sense of itself through simulation and testing...In play, most of the time, we are able to try out things without threatening our physical or emotional well-being. We are safe precisely because we are just playing."
Play at work isn't about ignoring how serious our work is; it's about building the psychological capacity and human connection to support that work. These are not just "breaks." They are "calibration sessions" for your brain and your team's nervous system.
The "Micro-Movement" Jam: Pick a song that makes you want to move, even if it's just tapping your fingers or toes. Move however the music inspires you, swaying, tapping, shaking or stretching, without worrying about getting it right. Give yourself at least one full song to really get into it. We often carry stress in our bodies, and releasing that physical tension helps you shift from a reactive state to a receptive one. Try it and see how it works for you.
The "Object Dialogue": Find an object in your space that represents a project you're working on or a challenge you're facing. Spend a minute or two observing it: not judging it, just observing it. Then ask yourself: If this object could speak, what would it say to me right now? Does it need anything? Is there a new perspective it wants to offer? This creative shift can help you bypass linear, analytical thinking and uncover an issue or a solution you hadn't seen before.
"Pass the Energy" Check-in: Spend the first few minutes of your next meeting without words. Invite each person to share one nonverbal gesture (a clap, a movement, a sound) that represents how they feel. The next person "catches" that energy, repeats it, and then transforms it into their own. This is a somatic exercise (and a great improv practice!) in witnessing and responding to each other, and a creative way to build trust and engagement as you move into your meeting.
"Yes, And" Prototyping: Instead of a standard brainstorm, use this to solve a specific friction point in your workflow. The rule is simple: every idea must be met with "Yes, and...", building on the previous person's contribution. For example: "How can we make our weekly report-out more engaging and useful?" Because the team builds on each other's ideas rather than critiquing them, you stay focused on a real problem while the improv structure lowers the stakes of failure, in this activity and in the future.

When we bring play into the workplace, we do three critical things:
We lower the stakes of failure. By framing an experiment as "play," we invite the kind of high-level risk-taking that leads to breakthroughs.
We regulate our nervous systems. Play moves us from a reactive, stressed state to a receptive, creative one.
We foster psychological safety. We build the foundation for high-performing teams by letting people be their authentic selves.
Leadership is not just about managing resources; it's about creating environments where human potential can thrive. Understanding the science of play is the first step, but weaving it into an organization's culture takes intentionality, a commitment to psychological safety, and the courage to challenge the "serious work" paradigm.
If you're ready to move beyond theory and start applying these principles in your own workplace, I invite you to join the Healing Leadership Lab. If the Lab isn't right for you at the moment, you can also reach out to me for individual coaching, workshops, or group consulting.
The Healing Leadership Lab is a 10-month incubator for leaders committed to humanizing their organizations: regulating our nervous systems, deepening connection, and helping teams thrive.
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